Monty Roberts, a renowned horse trainer known for his gentle approach to equine training, passed away last week at the age of 91. He gained international fame for advocating methods that focused on trust rather than intimidation, a philosophy he referred to as “join up.” This technique, based on the nonverbal communication horses use with each other, differentiated him from conventional trainers who often employed punishment in their methods.
Legacy of a Gentle Horseman
Born in Salinas, California, in 1935, Roberts became enamored with horses at a young age, riding at just three years old. By age eight, he was spending extensive time working with horses and competing in events. He later became a champion rider and stunt performer in numerous films, including the classic “National Velvet” featuring Elizabeth Taylor.
His approach to horse training caught the attention of Queen Elizabeth II in 1989, leading to a long-standing friendship. The Queen supported his methods and encouraged him to write his memoir, “The Man Who Listens to Horses,” which was published in 1996 and became a bestseller. Their relationship was further explored in the recent documentary “The Cowboy and the Queen,” which highlights their unique bond over three decades.
Roberts distanced himself from traditional training methods, which he witnessed growing up. He described a childhood marked by painful techniques used by his father, who trained horses with punishment. This led Roberts to develop his own methods, focusing on communication and understanding rather than force. His philosophy emphasized starting a horse rather than breaking it, using subtle cues that aligned with the horse’s natural instincts.
Throughout his career, Roberts trained thousands of horses, including both wild and problem horses, addressing behavioral issues with empathy and understanding. He believed that there are no “problem horses,” only horses struggling with their relationships with humans. His techniques garnered attention from trainers and horse lovers worldwide, leading to widespread demonstrations and workshops at his California ranch.
Roberts also had a remarkable impact beyond the world of horse training, having fostered around 47 children, many of whom faced significant challenges. He utilized principles derived from his experiences with horses to create a nurturing environment, emphasizing the importance of trust and respect in relationships.
Roberts’ death marks the loss of a major figure in equine training, remembered not only for his innovative methods but also for his compassion towards animals and people alike.
Why It Matters
Monty Roberts’ legacy continues to inspire a more humane approach to animal training, championing the idea that understanding and trust can lead to better relationships between humans and horses. His contributions to equine training methods have transformed how trainers and owners approach their relationships with their animals, promoting kindness over coercion.


